The Faith Compass Podcast

Silent Night: Finding Stillness in a busy Season

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Imagine finding peace in the middle of holiday chaos. On this episode of the Faith Compass Podcast, I, Javier, promise to guide you through the art of prioritizing stillness, even when life feels overwhelming. We explore serene biblical stories, like the peaceful nativity scene and Elijah's encounter with God, to uncover the significance of quiet moments in our spiritual journey. This isn't about inactivity; it's about deepening our presence with God. Together, we'll tackle challenges such as the fear of missing out and reframe stillness as essential for our spiritual well-being. You'll leave with practical tools to weave moments of peace into your daily life, ensuring you recharge and focus on the things that truly matter.

Discover how embracing stillness can transform anxiety into gratitude, allowing us to not only see but feel God's goodness even in the most hectic times. I'll share strategies for cultivating gratitude through practices like maintaining a blessings list and simplifying holiday traditions. By finding peace in stillness, we enhance our ability to trust God with our decisions, become more present in our relationships, and live authentically. We'll delve into how creating a rhythm of rest and reflection can shift stillness from a seasonal activity to a life-changing habit that helps us carry peace into the world around us.

In the midst of our discussion, we also delve into the profound impact of stillness on our spiritual resilience and growth. Inspired by biblical figures like Simon and the shepherds, we'll explore how waiting and stillness can help us trust in God's perfect timing and recognize His presence in everyday life. Worship naturally flows from a heart at peace, and I'll show how this enhances our ability to hear God's voice. We also consider the ripple effect of sharing this peace with others—bringing God's love into their lives even during the busiest seasons. And, for those feeling lost or alone, we'll touch on the importance of reaching out for support, reminding you of the hope and love that surrounds you.

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Welcome back to the Faith Compass Podcast. I'm Javier, your host, and I'm so glad you've joined me today. The holiday season is upon us. Decorations are everywhere, schedules are packed and the hustle seems to increase with each passing day. If you're anything like me, you've probably noticed how the pace of life during this time can feel overwhelming, even suffocating at times. But in the middle of the holiday rush, I want us to pause and reflect on something important the beauty and necessity of finding stillness. Yes, stillness. Quiet moments where we can hear God's gentle whisper amidst the noise. Today, we're going to talk about why these moments matter and how they can transform the way we experience this busy season. Let's begin with a short prayer God, we come to you with open hearts and minds. In the chaos of our daily lives, help us to find your peace. Teach us to pause and listen, for your voice to be present in the quiet moments and to draw closer to you Amen.

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When we think about Christmas, we often picture a serene nativity scene Mary Joseph and the infant Jesus resting in the stable. But have you ever considered how chaotic their journey to Bethlehem must have been? Luke, chapter 2, tells us that Joseph and Mary traveled there because of a government-mandated census. Imagine the crowds, the pressure and the discomfort of such a journey while pregnant. Yet in the midst of that busyness, god orchestrated the stillness of a silent night where the Savior of the world was born. That night wasn't just physically quiet, it was spiritually profound a moment that changed history. It's a reminder that stillness isn't the absence of activity but the presence of God.

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Psalm 46, verse 10, says Be still and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations. I will be exalted in the earth. This verse invites us to pause and recognize who God is, to let go of our striving and acknowledge his sovereignty. But how often do we actually take time to do this? Here's the thing Stillness isn't easy. In a world that glorifies productivity, we've been conditioned to believe that our worth is tied to how much we accomplish. Social media reinforces this idea, with endless posts about perfectly decorated homes, lavish holiday parties and mile-long gift lists. Even in our faith communities, there's often an emphasis on doing, volunteering, giving, serving, which are all good things, but they can become overwhelming if not rooted in moments of rest and reflection.

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Ruth Haley Barton, a Christian author, writes about the importance of solitude in her book Invitation to Solitude and Silence. She says Solitude is the place where we can gain freedom from the forces of society that otherwise relentlessly mold us. In solitude, we stop producing, stop performing, stop pleasing, stop entertaining, stop solving problems and simply be. What if, this Christmas, we gave ourselves permission to simply be, to sit in the quiet and focus on God's presence? It might feel countercultural, even uncomfortable, but it's exactly what our souls need.

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Let's talk about some practical ways to find stillness during this busy season. The first step is intentionality. Schedule quiet moments into your day just as you would any other commitment. Maybe it's 10 minutes in the morning before the house wakes up or a walk in the evening after dinner. The key is to create space where you can focus on God without distractions.

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Another way to cultivate stillness is through prayer and meditation on scripture. Philippians, chapter 4, verses 6 and 7, remind us Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God, and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds. In Christ Jesus. Notice the promise here. Peace comes when we bring our concerns to God in prayer. It's not about fixing every problem, but trusting that he is in control. Journaling can also be a powerful tool for finding stillness. Writing down your thoughts, prayers and reflections allows you to process what's on your heart and invite God into that space. It's a tangible way to slow down and connect with him.

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Now let's address a common challenge the fear of missing out. In a season filled with parties, traditions and to-do lists, saying no to certain activities can feel like you're letting people down or missing opportunities. But consider this even Jesus withdrew from the crowds to pray and recharge. In Mark, chapter 1, verse 35, it says and rising very early in the morning, while it was still dark, he departed and went out to a desolate place and there he prayed. If Jesus, the Son of God, prioritized quiet moments with the Father, how much more do we need them?

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Another beautiful example of stillness in the Bible is Elijah's encounter with God on Mount Horeb In 1 Kings, chapter 19,. Elijah is overwhelmed and discouraged, fleeing for his life. He expects to find God in dramatic displays of power, wind, earthquake, fire but instead God comes in a low whisper. This story reminds us that God often speaks in the quiet and if we're too busy or distracted we might miss his voice. So how do we resist the pull of constant busyness? It starts with shifting our perspective. Instead of viewing stillness as an indulgence, see it as a necessity for spiritual health. Consider it a way to recharge and refocus so that you can better navigate the demands of the season. Here's something else to think about. Stillness doesn't always mean silence. It can be found in listening to worship music, reading a devotional, or even sitting by the fireplace with no agenda. The goal is to create a moment where your heart and mind can rest in God's presence.

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One of my favorite quotes is from Dallas Willard, who said Hurry is the great enemy of spiritual life in our day. You must ruthlessly eliminate hurry from your life. It's a challenge, isn't it? But it's also an invitation to live differently, to prioritize what truly matters. Let's pause and unpack this idea of eliminating hurry.

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At first glance, it might sound unrealistic or even counterproductive in today's fast-paced world. After all, isn't the holiday season all about hustle? There are gifts to buy, meals to prepare, parties to attend and family gatherings to coordinate. But let's consider this Does all the rushing actually bring us closer to the true meaning of Christmas, or does it pull us further away? Hurry creates noise, not just external noise, but internal chaos. It distracts us, clouds our thinking and makes it harder to hear God's voice.

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Isaiah, chapter 30, verse 15, says For thus said the Lord, god, the Holy One of Israel in returning and rest you shall be saved. In quietness and in trust shall be your strength. Notice how strength comes from quietness and trust, not from striving or overextending ourselves. It's in the slowing down, in the returning to God, that we find true rest and renewal. Think about the story of Mary and Martha in Luke, chapter 10. Martha was busy with all the preparations, anxious about serving, while Mary chose to sit at Jesus' feet and listen to his teaching. When Martha complained, jesus gently corrected her, saying Martha, martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her. What was that good portion? It was being fully present with Jesus, prioritizing relationship over responsibilities.

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Now let me be clear. This isn't about neglecting our duties or abandoning the traditions that make the holidays special. It's about reframing our perspective so that our busyness doesn't overshadow our connection to God. We can still bake cookies, wrap presents and host gatherings, but we do so with hearts anchored in peace rather than stress. It's about inviting God into those moments and letting His presence guide us.

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Here's a practical question to reflect on what's driving your busyness this season? Is it a genuine desire to celebrate and serve, or is it rooted in expectations, either those placed on you by others or the ones you've placed on yourself? Often we feel pressure to make everything perfect, but perfection isn't what God asks of us. Micah, chapter 6, verse 8, reminds us of what the Lord truly desires to do justice and to love kindness and to walk humbly with your God. None of those things require us to overwork ourselves or stretch beyond our limits. Sometimes eliminating hurry means setting boundaries. This could look like saying no to an extra commitment, stepping away from social media for a day, or creating tech-free zones in your home to encourage deeper connection with family and with God. Boundaries aren't about isolation. They're about making room for what matters most, and when we make space for God, he fills it with His peace.

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Let's also talk about how we can use moments of stillness to practice gratitude. In Philippians, chapter 4, verse 6, paul writes Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. Gratitude shifts our focus from what's overwhelming us to what God has already done. It's a way to ground ourselves in His goodness, even in the midst of chaos. One simple way to cultivate gratitude is by keeping a daily list of blessings. Each evening, take a few minutes to write down three things you're thankful for. They don't have to be big. Maybe it's a kind word from a friend, the warmth of a cup of coffee or a beautiful sunset. As you build this habit, you'll start to notice God's hand in the small everyday moments, and that awareness can bring incredible peace.

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Another powerful practice during the holidays is simplifying. This doesn't mean cutting out all the fun or abandoning traditions, but rather focusing on what's truly meaningful For truly meaningful. For example, instead of trying to find the perfect gift for everyone, consider writing heartfelt letters that express your appreciation for them. These simple gestures often carry more weight and deepen relationships in ways material gifts can't. Simplifying also applies to our spiritual lives. Sometimes we overcomplicate our faith, thinking we need to do more or be more to earn God's favor. But the message of Christmas reminds us that God already did everything necessary through Jesus. In John, chapter 3, verse 16, we read For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. This is the ultimate gift and it's freely given, not because of anything we've done, but because of God's love and grace.

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As we embrace stillness, let's remember that it's not just about quieting our external environment. It's about quieting our hearts before God. It's creating space where he can speak, guide and reassure us of his presence, and when we do this, we're better equipped to carry his peace into the world around us. If you think about it, the holiday season is one of the best times to model this peace for others. So many people around us are struggling, whether it's financial stress, loneliness or the grief of missing loved ones. By grounding ourselves in God's presence, we can be a source of comfort and encouragement. Matthew, chapter 5, verse 9, says Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God. What an opportunity we have to be peacemakers to bring God's love into the chaos of the world.

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This season, let's take our cue from Jesus. In the Gospels. We see that he often withdrew to quiet places to pray, even when demands on His time were high. He understood the importance of staying connected to the Father and that connection sustained Him. In the same way, our moments of stillness are not just for ourselves. They're what enable us to live out our faith authentically and effectively. So how will you carve out time for stillness this week? Will you set aside a morning to reflect, unplug from distractions, or simply sit in the quiet and ask God to meet you there? Whatever it looks like for you, I encourage you to take that step.

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Stillness is a gift, and it's one that can transform not just our holiday season, but our entire lives. Let our entire lives let's go a bit deeper into what it means to let stillness transform not just the season, but our lives. This idea of stillness goes beyond just pausing for a moment here and there. It's about cultivating a rhythm of life where rest and reflection become a priority. It's about letting those quiet moments shape how we approach the busyness, not just during the holidays, but every day. Think about this.

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Stillness is an act of trust. When we slow down, we're saying to God I trust you to handle what I can't. I trust you to guide me through the things I think I need to control. That's not easy, especially in a culture that praises multitasking and rewards over commitment, but stillness requires us to surrender that mindset. It's a way of saying God I'm letting you take the lead. Psalm 127, verse 2, offers this beautiful reassurance. It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil, for he gives to his beloved sleep. Isn't that incredible? God doesn't want us to burn out striving. He wants us to rest in him. He's not impressed by our packed schedules or endless to-do lists. What he desires is our trust, our willingness to pause and lean into his provision. Now let's talk about how this trust and stillness can ripple out into our relationships.

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When we're hurried and overwhelmed, it's hard to be fully present with the people we love. We may be physically there, but emotionally or mentally checked out. Stillness allows us to reset, to recharge, so we can show up for others in meaningful ways. It's in these quiet moments that we're reminded of the importance of connection both with God and with the people he's placed in our lives. One of the most profound ways we can model this is through active listening. When someone shares their heart with us, are we truly present or are we distracted thinking about what we need to do next? James, chapter 1, verse 19, says Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger. Listening is a form of love, a way of reflecting God's attentiveness to us, and when we take time to be still before God, it becomes easier to offer that same attentiveness to others.

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Stillness also impacts how we approach our decisions. Have you ever noticed how easy it is to make impulsive choices when you're rushed, Whether it's overspending on gifts, overcommitting to events or saying yes to things that drain you? Hurry often leads to regret. But when we slow down, when we create space to seek God's wisdom, our decisions are more grounded and aligned with His will. Proverbs, chapter 3, verses 5 and 6, are a guiding light in this area. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your and here's something else Stillness can bring clarity to our calling.

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In the busyness of life it's easy to lose sight of our purpose. We get caught up in the demands and distractions, forgetting the unique role God has called us to. But when we take time to be still, to quiet our hearts before Him, we open ourselves to hearing His direction. Think of Jeremiah 29, verse 11, where God says For I know the plans I have for you. Declares, the Lord plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. Those plans become clearer when we stop and listen, when we give God space to reveal His will.

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Stillness isn't just about resting. It's about resetting, realigning ourselves with God's purposes. So as we think about finding stillness this season, let's also consider what it means to carry that stillness with us. How can we make it a regular part of our lives, not just something we reach for when things feel overwhelming? It might start small, with a daily moment of gratitude, a short prayer before starting the day or a commitment to pause before making decisions. But those small steps can lead to profound changes over time.

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Stillness at its core is about creating room for God to move. It's about acknowledging that we're not the ones holding everything together. God is, and when we live from that place of trust and rest, we become more aware of His presence, more attuned to His voice and more equipped to share His love with others. Stillness, when carried with intention, becomes a lens through which we view our entire lives. It shifts our priorities, aligns our hearts with God's our entire lives. It shifts our priorities, aligns our hearts with God's and deepens our faith. But what's truly remarkable about stillness is how it not only transforms us, but also allows us to reflect God's character to others. It's in those moments of quiet, strength and peace that we become living testimonies of His grace.

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Let's explore how this transformation can impact our holiday season in practical ways. For instance, consider the way we approach giving. In a world that often equates generosity with extravagance, stillness invites us to rethink the heart behind our gifts. Are we giving out of obligation or from a place of genuine love? Are we focused on the monetary value of a gift or are we considering the spiritual value of blessing someone with kindness, encouragement or support? 2 Corinthians 9, verse 7, reminds us each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. This kind of giving stems from a heart that's been quieted and aligned with God's love, of heart that recognizes the beauty of simplicity and the joy of thoughtful generosity. Stillness can also transform how we celebrate. Instead of getting caught up in creating the perfect holiday, we can focus on creating meaningful moments. Maybe it's turning off the TV and reading the Christmas story from Luke, chapter 2, with your family. Maybe it's pausing to pray as you light, a candle reflecting on the light of the world who came to dwell among us. These small, intentional acts of worship bring depth and significance to our celebrations.

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Let's not forget that stillness often involves waiting, and waiting isn't always easy. In the busyness of life, we're conditioned to expect instant results, quick responses, fast solutions, immediate gratification. But God often works in the waiting. He uses those moments to refine us, to draw us closer to him and to remind us of his perfect timing. Consider the story of Simon in Luke, chapter 2. Simon had been waiting his whole life for the promised Messiah. When Mary and Joseph brought baby Jesus to the temple, simon took him in his arms and praised God, saying Lord, now you are letting your servant depart in peace, according to your word, for my eyes have seen your salvation that you have prepared in the presence of all peoples. Simon's long wait was rewarded with the fulfillment of God's promise, and his stillness and trust in God's timing allowed him to recognize the Savior. How often do we miss God's work in our lives because we're too busy to wait, too distracted to notice? Stillness gives us the patience to trust in His timing and the clarity to see His hand in the ordinary moments.

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Let's also talk about the role of worship in stillness. Worship isn't just about singing songs in church. It's a posture of the heart, a way of acknowledging God's greatness and surrendering to His will. In stillness, we're reminded of who God is, our Creator, our Sustainer, our Redeemer. Psalm 100, verses 4 and 5, say Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise. Give thanks to Him. Bless His name, for the Lord is good. His steadfast love endures forever and His faithfulness to all generations. This kind of worship flows naturally from a heart that's been quieted before God. It's not about performance or perfection. It's about genuine gratitude and awe for who he is and what he's done.

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Finally, let's reflect on the ultimate stillness, the stillness of the first Christmas night. Imagine the quiet of that moment when the shepherds, after being visited by the angelic hosts, stood in awe before the Christ child. Imagine the stillness that enveloped Mary as she treasured up all these things, pondering them in her heart. That night wasn't without challenges or hardships, but it was marked by the peace and presence of God. This is the kind of stillness we're invited to experience today. It's not about escaping the realities of life, but about encountering God in the midst of them. It's about finding the calm and the chaos, the peace in the pressure and the joy in the journey.

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Stillness is a gift and, like all good gifts, it's meant to be shared. When we embrace stillness, we carry its ripple effects into our families, our communities and the world. We become instruments of God's peace, voices of his love and reflections of his grace. Stillness is not only a gift we give to ourselves, but also a gift we extend to others. When we make space for quiet moments with God, we create a reservoir of peace that overflows into our interactions. Think about the people in your life who may be feeling overwhelmed, lonely or stressed during this season. What would it look like to share the stillness you found with them? It could be as simple as offering a listening ear, inviting someone into a moment of prayer or encouraging them to take a break from the holiday rush. These small acts of love and kindness have the power to bring God's peace into their lives, even if just for a moment, and in doing so, we become living examples of God's presence, showing others that there's a better way to navigate the chaos.

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Let's revisit the idea of how stillness can help us recalibrate our priorities. The world is constantly telling us what we should value success, material possessions, busyness, but stillness allows us to realign with what truly matters. It's in the quiet that we remember the things that have eternal significance our relationship with God, the love we share with others and the way we live out our faith. Matthew 6, verse 21 puts it beautifully For where your treasure is there, your heart will be also. When we treasure stillness, when we make room for God in our hearts and lives, we find that our focus shifts. The things that once seemed urgent or overwhelming fade into the background, and what remains is a clear sense of purpose rooted in God's love. Still, what remains is a clear sense of purpose rooted in God's love.

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Stillness also strengthens our ability to hear God's voice. In the noise of daily life, it can be hard to discern His guidance or feel His presence, but when we slow down and tune our hearts to Him, we begin to recognize His leading. Whether it's through scripture, prayer or a quiet prompting in our spirit, god speaks to us in ways that bring clarity and reassurance. Think about Jesus' words in John, chapter 10, verse 27. My sheep hear my voice and I know them, and they follow me. Hearing God's voice is not about striving. It's about being still enough to listen. It's about trusting that he is always speaking, always guiding, even when we can't immediately see the path ahead.

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Let's also consider how stillness impacts our spiritual resilience. Life is unpredictable and the holiday season can bring its own set of challenges family tensions, financial pressures or feelings of inadequacy. But when we cultivate stillness, we anchor ourselves in God's unchanging character. We find strength in His promises and peace in His presence, no matter what storms come our way. Isaiah, chapter 40, verse 31, gives us this powerful assurance. But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength. They shall mount up with wings like eagles. They shall run and not be weary. They shall walk and not faint. Waiting on the Lord is an act of stillness, a declaration of trust in His timing and provision. It's a reminder that we don't have to carry the weight of life on our own. God is with us, sustaining us every step of the way.

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Now let's not forget the ripple effect of stillness on our spiritual growth. When we make time to pause and reflect, we create opportunities for God to shape us, to teach us and to deepen our faith. Stillness is where transformation happens, where we move from simply knowing about God to truly knowing Him. It's where we experience His love in ways that change us from the inside out. This kind of transformation doesn't happen overnight and it doesn't come from a single moment of stillness. It's a journey, a daily commitment to making space for God in our lives. And as we take those steps, we discover that stillness isn't just a practice. It's a way of being. It becomes part of who we are, shaping how we live, love and serve.

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So, as we continue through this holiday season, let's ask ourselves how can we embrace stillness not just as a one-time effort but as a lifestyle? What changes can we make to prioritize God's presence in the middle of our busy days? How can we invite others into the peace we found, pointing them to the one who is the source of all true rest? Stillness is an invitation, a sacred space where we meet God, where we find clarity, renewal and hope. It's a place of refuge in a world that often feels overwhelming, a reminder that we are never alone. God is with us, whispering his love, offering his peace and calling us to rest in him.

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As we bring this episode to a close, I hope you've been encouraged to embrace the gift of stillness this holiday season. Remember stillness isn't about doing less. It's about making space for what truly matters your relationship with God, your connection with others and your ability to live with intention and peace. Let's end with a prayer. God, we thank you for the reminder that in stillness we find you as we go through this busy season. Help us to pause, to listen and to rest in your presence. Teach us to trust you with our schedules, our worries and our hearts. May your peace fill us and overflow into every part of our lives so we can be a light to those around us. Thank you for the gift of stillness and the joy of knowing you. Amen. Thank you so much for spending this time with me on the Faith Compass Podcast. If this episode touched your heart, I encourage you to share it with someone who might need the reminder that God's peace is available to them, no matter what they're facing.

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But before we close, I want to speak to anyone listening who may feel lost, overwhelmed or even hopeless. If you've been searching for peace and purpose, know that it can only truly be found in Jesus Christ. He loves you deeply and he gave His life so you could experience forgiveness, freedom and a relationship with him. If you've never made the decision to follow him. I invite you to pray and ask Jesus to be your savior. It doesn't have to be complicated, just an honest conversation with him. He's waiting with open arms.

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I also want to take a moment to say this If you're struggling with thoughts of self harm or suicide, please know that you are not alone. There is hope and there is help. You can call or text the suicide and crisis lifeline at 988, anytime, day or night. You are loved, valued and cherished by God and there are people who care deeply about you and want to walk alongside you. Until next time, I pray you'll find the stillness and peace that comes from surrendering your heart to God. May His love surround you, his grace sustain you and His presence guide your steps. Stay safe, stay strong and stay blessed. Take care you.

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